Saturday, September 5, 2009

How do show your interest, without selling the whole shop?

Dressed to Kill

The way you go about it, tells who you are and what your style is.
Some women believe that what a man sees is what gets him interested, the best lure being eye-candy.
Others believe that it's your eyes that make the first impression. So, if you are dressed to kill - you must first entice his eyes away from your cleavage.

Then again, some believe in being direct and asking for what they want.

Some men will find this confronting, but most - once they start breathing again, find this approach a bonus, as in the easier it is - the better.

Still other women prefer to get to know a man better, having him 'prove' himself, therefore being less of a risk.

Just as each woman has a unique style, so too, men respond to those signals differently.

Not all men find the same women or styles enticing. Some men are scared by 'direct' women, who make the first move. For some, directness translates to - 'come hither'.

For some men, it's your mind they find interesting, as in conversation and wit. Not very many men will find scientific discourses a turn on. Some men will openly admit that how you look is the first thing to attract them.

Obviously, the way in which you present yourself, or your style, will be noticed by men who are attracted to that particular style.

If, for instance, you are not comfortable exhibiting lots of flesh - don't dress that way. Large expanses of exposed skin will attract men with that preference, who will therefore expect this to be 'your' style.

It is always fun to doll yourself up - but don't sell yourself out.

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